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Help Not Dictate
Thursday, July 01, 2010 @ 1:49 PM

"Love doesn't always mean this:
dapat ganito ka..
dapat ganyan ka..
o dapat ito ang gawin mo..

but this:
kahit ganito ka..
kahit ganyan ka..
kahit ano ka pa..


..mahal kita.



Huwag laging gamitin ang salitang "dapat"...
Pwede ka mag-suggest especially during the times when you're very concerned na with your loved one. Anong mga klaseng concerns ba kamo at bakit ka mag-bibigay ng suggestions? Well, if [s]he begins hurting other people [may or may not include you], aren't you going to say something about it? Saka along the lines na rin ung self-destructive tendencies nya...

So I guess what I'm trying to say is... HELP, not dictate.
Also, help him/her not for yourself... but for his/herself.
Remember that you're doing it because you love him/her.
That is all. =)

Pure everything, ne?

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I want to stop wondering "what-ifs".
I need to know "what is".

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